How To Be A Responsible Pet Owner: The Ultimate Guide To Pet Adoption 2023

by Suzie Cyrenne July 14, 2023 8 min read

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More often than not, a huge number of people only care about the benefits of owning a pet and fail to prepare themselves for the responsibilities of taking care of their new furry friend. Lots of kudos and thanks for reading this pet mom or dad!

Quick Guidelines for Responsible Pet Ownership

Owner playing fetch with her dog

Some people think that being a pet parent simply means dressing up the animal in cute outfits plus a bit of grooming here and there. But the thing is it's a serious commitment that only a few people with loving hearts are capable of.

So how does one become an awesome pet parent? Are you on a search for a guide to qualify as one? You bet there are and we've got you covered! Below are the 10 commandments awesome pet owners adhere to when it comes to giving adoptable animals the best quality of life:


#1. Thou Shall Give Respect

cat playing

Whether you've adopted a dog, cat or some other pet from an animal shelter or rescue, treating your new furry friend with respect is the first step to giving them a loving home. Remember that it's not about getting the right pet, but being the right person for the job.

Raquel Hartzell of Rocky Mountain Feline Rescue shares that besides helping you set your expectations to a reasonable level, respecting an animal also motivates you to find out more about how to best care for it and address its needs.



#2 - Thou Shall Provide Your Pet with Food, Shelter, and Affection

Human feeding her dog

Being a responsible pet owner or pet parent means providing for the animal’s basic needs. That means food, water, shelter, social interaction, and growth. For more about this and other basic pet care responsibilities for new pet parents, see the chapter on Pet Care installment of The Ultimate Guide to Pet Adoption series.

#3 - Thou Shall Train and Discipline Your Pet Lovingly

Cat inside the box

There can be times when some pet parents feels bad about having to discipline their pet, thinking that they may be too harsh. As long as you don’t physically hurt or harm your pet by beating, starving, withholding affection for long periods, and punishing the pet for things it cannot control, then you are in good shape. Animals need structure and you are responsible for providing your pet that structure.

The right way of training and disciplining a pet is by being respectful of its limitations and being consistent with rules. Just remember that compassion and patience go a long way, just the same as what K9 Jack of LongShot Farms, Christa McElroy of Tri Country Collie Rescue, and Bonney Williams of Etosha Rescue and Adoption Center plus several other animal experts have shared with us.

#4 - Thou Shall Protect Your Pet from Harm

Woman kissing her dog

Protecting your pet from harm also means pet proofing your home so that the animal cannot eat something or do something that may harm it. This also includes not placing the pet in situations which may cause it harm. Example: If you have a dog, chaining it in the backyard when you live in bear or wolf country is NOT advisable.

Protecting your pet from harm also means pet proofing your home so that the animal cannot eat something or do something which may harm it. This also includes not placing the pet in situations which may cause it harm. Example, if you have a dog, chaining it in the backyard when you live in bear or wolf country is not advisable.

Exercise common sense to be a responsible pet parent and fully protect your pet from harm. What do we mean? If you know that eating too much of a certain food may cause health problems, then stop yourself from giving the pet that food no matter how much it begs.

As a pet parent, it is your responsibility to do the thinking for your pet – and yes, even when it gives you the hard-to-resist puppy-dog eyes!

#5 - Thou Shall Bring Your Pet the Vet for a Checkup When Needed

Veterinarian checking the dog

There is no excuse for not bringing your pet to a vet if something seems off. Sure, finances can be tight sometimes but there are also ways to get around that. Some communities may have free clinics or can offer discounted rates for vet care. At the very least, you would know how your pet is doing by consulting a vet. In case something is indeed wrong, you will at least know which options you have. You may even find it beneficial to try more natural forms of healing such as homeopathic products.

#6 - Thou Shall Strive To Make The Best Choices For Your Pet’s Health

Woman kissing her cat

There are so many trends when it comes to pet health that it is often too easy to join the band wagon and go with what’s popular instead of what’s right. To do what’s right, read up, do your research, and try to keep things to a minimum. For example, there is no need to give the pet supplements, vitamins, and some vaccines if they are not mandatory or if there is no real need to begin with. In other words, don’t try to fix what isn’t broken.

We all want our pets to be as healthy as they can be. Oftentimes, the best way to achieve that is to go back to basics and try to stay away from unnecessary procedures like de-clawing, excessive vaccinations, and tail docking and so on. Even modern-medicine approved procedures can do more harm than good in the long run; even more so if they have not been studied extensively to rule out any harmful effects (example of this with some vaccines).

Try to address all aspects of your pet’s health. This means taking care of not just the physical needs but also making sure that the pet gets proper social interaction, play time, and yes, even some learning! Be informed and be open. Be observant and be loving. In the end, what your pet needs is a loving pet parent who would be his or her advocate in every way, especially when it comes to health.

#7 - Thou Shall Ensure That Your Pet Is Spayed or Neutered

Veterinarians checking the dog

Unless you are a breeder, getting your pet spayed or neutered (mostly applicable to cats and dogs) is one of the most important and loving things you can do. There may be people who thinks spaying and neutering is a sort of meddling with how nature intended animals to be but you also have to think of the big picture.

What big picture? Do you know that a huge percentage of shelter and rescue animals are from unregulated breeding by ‘intact’ animals? Are you aware how many millions (yes, MILLIONS!) of cats and dogs are put to sleep every year because shelters and rescues cannot hold them anymore? Do you know that intact animals can sometimes be more vulnerable to certain cancers and behavioral problems? Well, now that you know how important spaying and neutering is, doesn’t it make sense to go for it?

#8 - Thou Shall Ensure Your Pet has Proper Identification

Orange cat with a bell

It is inevitable that your pet may get lost at one point in its lifetime (especially true for cats and dogs). To safeguard your pet from totally not finding its way back to your home, have the pet wear a collar with your name and contact details on it. It’s also recommended to have your pet microchipped when possible to do so.

But why the need for the double identification? Well, not everyone would have a microchip reader or would know how to use one. A collar with your details would work so that the people who may find your pet would know how and where to contact you. As Sandra Dollar of Save the Strays Animal Rescuesays, “we always recommend a visible ID tag be kept on the dog's collar as the best/first line of defense against loss.”

As for the microchip, it is a valuable piece of identification if you lost a puppy (the puppy is not going to stay a puppy forever). It can also help you reunite with your pet in cases of pet kidnapping or theft because it contains information to prove you’re the rightful pet parent. Just don’t forget to have the microchip registered though or else it would be useless, a friendly reminder from Anne Fifield of Basset Rescue Across Texas.


#9 - Thou Shall Include Your Pet in Future Plans

Four dogs

How would you feel if someone commits to living with you for the rest of your life and then suddenly decides a few weeks, months, or years later that you should be ditched because you don’t fit in that person’s life anymore. Hurts right? Now imagine not being able to do anything about it and facing the possibility of death just because someone failed to think ahead and doesn’t have a plan B so that you can live. Isn’t that unfair? It’s totally ridiculous!

The scenario above is what’s going on everywhere in the world right now. Thousands of animals are being put to sleep or abandoned every day because their pet parents didn’t think of including them in their future plans. You cannot get a cat today and then suddenly decide you must get rid of it in the future because you want to date someone who does not like cats.

Adopting a pet and being a responsible pet parent can mean having to give up some things because your commitment to the pet trumps mere creature comforts. Simply put, don’t commit to anything you have no intention of doing your best to accomplish.

A pet is a huge responsibility. Owning a pet means there are certain things you may not be able to do anymore such as spontaneously taking off for the weekend for some exotic destination, or living in a posh no-pets-allowed condominium.

It takes a special type of person to have the grits and strength of character to honor the unspoken pact which every pet owner has with their pet – a friendship for a lifetime.

As Ashley Pobanz of Foothills Humane Society puts it, a pet means a lifetime of commitment which you can’t just get out of whenever you feel like it. A pet is not something to be discarded just because it chewed your shoe or isn’t cute and cuddly anymore.

#10 - Thou Shall Not Abandon Your Pet

Two cats under a chair

Adopting a pet is a lifetime commitment. It can either be your lifetime or the pet’s lifetime. The point is, having a pet is truly a til death do us part sort of relationship unless very special circumstances warrant that someone else has to take care of the animal (like if you’re in active military service and being deployed somewhere).

As a responsible pet owner, you should understand that you should only adopt a pet if you can fully commit to being a part of its life for as long as you or the animal is alive. As Christine of Amaryllis Farm Equine Rescue says about adopting, “Adopt with the intention of forever, no matter what. Know the cost, time and emotional effort may be high but, in the end, the rewards are priceless.”

We truly appreciate you taking the time to read this semi ‘guide’ on how to be a responsible pet owner. Truly, you are doing the right thing by reading up on how you can be the best pet parent your pet can have, and we’re sure Fran Filak of A-Parrot to A-Flamingo will agree with us.

Being a pet parent is a privilege and you should be proud of being one. Wear it like a badge of honor (because it IS) and spread the word on how to be a responsible pet parent like yourself!

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Suzie Cyrenne
Suzie Cyrenne


Suzie Cyrenne has dedicated more than 20 years of her life in making and improving natural animal health solutions in the global setting.

Being the co-founder of Zumalka, Suzie is a forerunner in enhancing the lives of pets through natural and homeopathic options using the knowledge she has gained from the Classical Homeopathy School in Quebec.

Through the guidance of her mother-in-law and fellow natural health expert, Denyse Lessard, Suzie constantly devotes herself to create premium pet products that are aimed at dealing with the root causes of wellness problems and not just their symptoms.

Besides immersing herself in books, personal development and visiting new places, Suzie also enjoys keeping herself in tiptop shape by snowboarding and taking daily hikes with her husband and Zumalka co-founder, Matt Lessard, and their Golden-Doodle, Westin.

Find out more about Suzie when you click HERE.

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